Elma Turl

Elma Turl

Mike Cross-Elma Turl: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ehsqtmTzULM

Originally shared by Rick Wayne (Author)

In my youth, when I didn't know any better, I used to get into discussions with people about stuff like this. It's so deeply buried, it's difficult (for myself included) to separate truth from expectation.

There is a big chunk of the population that still sees men and women in more or less traditional ways. There is another somewhat less big chunk that advocates an expanded view of women but still relates to men in more or less the same way. That we're more aggressive, disproportionately promiscuous, and so on.

Part of the reason I share stuff like this -- and the article from last week that showed married queens started more wars than kings (married or not) -- is NOT because I'm some bullshit MRA, but because gender relations are reciprocal, like a dance, and you can't change your ideas of one without changing your ideas about the other.

One of these days, for example, we'll have to legitimately face the romance genre -- the largest genre in the world, by sales -- with the same scrutiny we give the Hollywood blockbuster.

There is A LOT of work ahead of us.
http://theconversation.com/data-should-smash-the-biological-myth-of-promiscuous-males-and-sexually-coy-females-59665

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  1. Mike Cross is not well known outside of North Carolina, I'm afraid. Although another song of his, The Scotsman, is pretty well known in folk circles, he often doesn't get credit for writing it. Also, I'll be forever grateful that he persuaded Triona NiDomhnaill to come to Chapel Hill, play on his album, and start a band in his living room. Got to meet her brother, and the Cunninghams, on account of that.

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